[TW: TRANSMISOGYNY] QUINN VALENTINE AKA SHAE SPENCER WALSH IS TRYING TO “RUN ME OUT OF THE COUNTRY,” AND “DESTROY,” ME FOR SPEAKING OUT ABOUT ABOUT HIM BEING TRANSMISOGYNISTIC TOWARS ME! HE SAYS HE HAS A CREW READY TO BASH ME!
Yesterday, I spoke out about how Quinn Valentine (porn actor and drag queen) has been transmisogynistic to me in the past (here). I even nominated him for transmisogynist of the year.
I have asked nothing of him but to be left alone.
Today he sent a slew of messages my way in which he tried to silence me with threats of violence and social isolation:
Hello Amber, this is [Quinn Valentine]. I just want to let u know that if I ever disrespected ur gender it was out of fear of you appropriating queerness in search of a ‘Golden ticket’ for u to excuse ur suffocating privilege.
Great… so not only is he excusing his transmisoginistic behavior, he’s flat out saying he thinks of himself as the queer/gender police. You don’t get to fucking decide if my identity is valid or not! Also, funny that you mention privilege… considering you’re white, cisgendered, male, able bodied and your mom lives in… Palm Springs was it? Oh, and I’ve been to your dad’s place in Washington with the private beach… very snazzy.
I set aside my frustrations for u aside and decided yes, It was wrong to disrespect your gender. And out of respect of gender, not u, I accepted Amber. The problem is not that u are trans, the problem is you. I have left you alone, and begun to think about forgiveness. But now, a year later you have the audacity to threaten my career and name on the internet? Wow, I can c u haven’t changed. That is the lowest, Slimyest, most immature thing u could due, particularly because its a lie and you know it!
Wait… it’s a lie? You just admitted you did it and tried to excuse it! Either you did it or you didn’t.
Also, in what way is it slimey for me to speak out about how my oppression at your hands? This is some silencing bullshit right here… If you raped someone would you try to silence them too?
YOU chose to be a transmisogynistic asshole and it is NOT my responsibility to be silent for the sake of your career! This shit you’re doing right here? THAT’S SLIMEY!
I haven’t bad mouthed ur name in the queer community, but ur not making Friends with this kind of bullshit. I’m sure everyone will take all queer porn stars and my queer community’s word over yours.
Hierarchy, queerer than thou, silencing… it just gets better and better.
I just wanted to leave u alone, but u obviously can’t do that.
No, you want to silence me… that’s quite different.
So keep doing what you’re doing and I will tell everyone the truth. I will not only run u out of The bay, but the entire fucking country! You are doing all of this yourself fucker. Keep being the asshole u are, keep bashing my name… And I will fucking destroy you. Do you understand? Revoke that nomination now. I am giving you this one last chance. Do you understand Amber? Do you understand Amber?! Yes or no fucker. Do you understand? I already have an irate crew on deck. I can stop them from bashing u back. Take everything u said dwn now. Do u understand?
Wow… just… wow…
Quinn Valentine has organized a group of people to bash me for being open about him oppressing me.
I am posting this and trying to get it circulated as much as possible in an attempt to make this known and protect myself. Please, do your part to signal boost.
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